Tuesday, March 24, 2009

Washing the Car

Yesterday I went out in the afternoon to wash my dirty car. It was long over due. I use to always take my car down to the car wash and just pay the $20 for some one else to do all the car work. I have a suburban so washing the car is not a fast easy task. These days this job has taken on new meaning and has become something that I enjoy doing.

This is my story behind washing my own car.

On the beautiful summer morning of July 25th my sweet daughter Kamber came and woke me up bright and early. That was okay with me because I had lots I needed to do before my husband and I left out of town late that afternoon. I never choose to wash my car myself but knowing that my mom was coming to stay at our house with the kids I knew she would probably like to use my car and it would be nice to use a clean car. Brookie was sleeping and Tayler and Kylie were watching cartoons. I knew I couldn't leave Kamber in the house to wonder because that would just be trouble waiting to happen. So I chose to take her out with me to wash the car. We got our bucket of soapy water and our towels to dry off the car. I started and Kamber found my keys and decided to dunk them in the bucket of water and with excitement in her voice yelled out "Lookie Mama I wash keys!" I wasn't to happy about it because I have a remote clicker on my keys and worried that it would ruin them. I took the keys from her and told her not to put them in the water again. As soon as I turned my back the keys were back in the water and I heard "Lookie Mama I wash keys!" I took them from her once again and said not to put the keys in the water. This time she waited a couple of minutes before I heard her again. This time I just didn't care, she was having fun. Then she came over and washed the part of the car I had already cleaned and rinsed off, but I didn't care. Then she drug my clean towels through the muddy water and on to the clean part of the car to help me dry but I didn't care. She was having fun and I was loving just spending time with her. She was a big helper and I loved spending that one on one time with her that day. There was something special and sweet about that day and her, something I noticed and enjoyed and the day seemed to revolve around her. It was wonderful. Little did I know Heavenly Father was planting one more memory for me to have of my sweet girl soon to be taken back to her heavenly home later that day.

We had many more things we did that day and memories her sisters will always remember. I am grateful for not letting time get in the way that day and just enjoyed my girls. I am grateful that I washed my car that day and this is why I continue to do so.

I enjoyed my time by myself yesterday washing my car remembering my sweet Kamber.

5 comments:

Andrea said...

I'm so glad you have such a sweet and wonderful memory of your Kamber. You are such a great mother! Oh, how we cherish each and every memory of our sweet littles ones. I can't wait for the day when we will create many more memories in the Millenium. I can't wait to be able to meet Kamber and see her amazing smile in person.
Much love!

The McNeil Family said...

How special to wash your car yesterday.I love reading your sweet memories and posts. I am sure she was right there watching you wash the car. Kamber had such a sweet loving personalitity that it was so hard to get upset at her. I enjoyed the time that we spent with her while she was here with us.

Tanner and Shasta said...

As soon as I saw the tital of your post I knew what you were going to say. As I was reading it I could literally hear your voice telling that story at the funeral. Even though I had to grab a tissue I loved hearing it again.

Alishia said...

I always think of you and Kamber when I wash my car because of that story and how sweetly you told it at the funeral. I haven't been brave enough to let my twins help me yet, but know when they do, I will think of your angel girl dunking your keys in the water. What a special memory!!

Andrea said...

Thank you Jen for understanding me today. Thank you for letting me know I'm not alone in the depth's of the sea. Sending a hug your way.
Love,
Andrea

"Mothers hold their children's hands for a short while but their hearts... Forever."