Monday, August 3, 2009

One Year Ago


Like I mentioned in my last post, we went to Lake Powell on July 25th, marking one year since we lost Kamber. It was the right choice for us. It helped break up the day and focus on brighter days to come. We stopped by the cemetery on our way out of town to see Kamber and leave flowers. Her headstone looked the most beautiful I have ever seen it since it was put in. It was clean with not a spec of dirt or dust on it. The grass around it was a beautiful green. It was so neat to see it this way especially on this day. We felt peace while we were there and sad that we even had to experience a day like this. We of course remembered the time of the events and watched the clock as that time approached, but it was so nice not to be in our home during that time. The 5 hour drive to the lake was a great time for us as a family to talk about Kamber and the funny things that she did and the things that we miss the most. The 25th was a peaceful day filled with love for each other and for our Kamber.

Thanks to all for the thoughtful gifts, cards, and phone calls on this special day. We have many angels here on the earth that continue to lift us up during our trials. Thank you for remembering our Kamber. I think remembering a loved one is the one thing a mom and dad feel is the most important. We hope everyone will continue to remember Kamber and the sweet spirit she is for years to come.

Coming Soon!
Many more pictures, funny and heart felt stories to come of our Lake Powell Trip.

7 comments:

Kathryn said...

Welcome back Jen! We missed you! So glad you had a great time - you deserved it! I told Kayla you guys are back and she said, "Yea! Now she'll update her blog!" She loves reading you - isn't that funny?
Talk to you soon!

Jeni Lyn said...

I am so happy that you were able to enjoy the day. We love you.

Kelli said...

It does sound like it was the perfect choice for your family. I look forward to hearing all about your trip.

Hall Family said...

I am glad I found your blog. I am touched by your strength, love and desire to live a better life. Our stories are so similar. I have 4 girls and also lost my 3rd daughter, in 2008, she was 2 1/2 years old. I would love to join your blog for mothers who have lost their children. I know that through sharing, and learning from the experiences of others our lives will be blessed, and healed. I am sorry for your loss, and I empathize with you and your family. If you wish you can visit my blog, www.hallstory.blogspot.com, (to read a little about my experience you will have to go back to June 2008). Even though I don't know you and you me, I would love to keep in touch. Elisa

Andrea said...

Jen:
I'm glad you were able to do what was best for you and your sweet family on such a hard day. I've been thinking of you and hoping you felt some comfort. Sending my love your way.
Andrea
Wyatt's mommy

momof72nheaven said...

I am so happy you found something that worked for you on that day. I am so worried about Loughlin's upcoming birthday and his angel day. I hope we find the peace you did.

Anonymous said...

Welcome home Jen! I thought about you and Kamber so much while we were in California. Lots of hugs your way!

"Mothers hold their children's hands for a short while but their hearts... Forever."